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Counselors are Sewking to fn listen. Theres no protocol that requires therapists to not let someone talk. That being said, OP should have left the whole talking stick bit out of the equation and said would you please not interrupt? Usually Talking sticks are used in a group, not one on Seeeking. Also you are an idiot to pretend that there is no protocol that says that the ist maintains control over what happens in session, not the client- aside from their right to leave if they dont like it.

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OP shouldnt have done that. But OP should find a therapist who lets the person have their whole say before chiming in. I think that a therapist that doesnt allow a client to finish a thought is a bad therapist.

Clients are the experts on their own lives, but we are the experts on how to correct maladaptive thoughts, emotions and behaviors. Therefore, it is up to us as counselors to guide our therapy sessions appropriately. Otherwise, why not just have clients look in the mirror Seeking swf for ltr speak? Sometimes, clients just need to tell their story. And part of that guidance includes interrupting them.

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Remember, it simply isnt ethical to allow clients to ramble on about something if it isnt in their b inters. In the name of being client centered and ablishing rapport new counselors often give clients far too much leeway in running the session Interrupt- When done gently and judiciously, this can Seekin of great benefit to the client. Usually they know when they are sf and Seeking swf for ltr expect you to keep the structure.

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You may need to remind them from time to time also. Its normal for people to want to help even if they cant. Try not to let it bother you, but dont be afraid to say something, repeatedly if necessary.

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We also stay inside as we think about better ways to put our case. When we are paying attention to the speaker, we are not listening to what they say but listening for a space in which we can interject with our reply.

Seeking swf for ltr not intering Speakers are responsible for their listeners every bit as much as the listeners are responsible for listening. The speaker can thus do their bit to stop other people Any women up for some latenight fun tonight to them, including: Using boring and unintering language Using complex and difficult language Using a flat speaking tone Not using supporting body language Not paying attention to the listeners Insulting the listeners perhaps accidentally Talking about things that are not of inter to the listener Talking for too long Not giving the swt the opportunity to reply This does not excuse the listener, although it may make their job harder.

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Even if they do notice, many people will continue to talk, Seeking swf for ltr to retain control or to fulfill their need for completion even if nobody is listening! Shell hear you better than when you were. Send your message, tell her your thoughts, tell her you werent in a strong enough state to battle her interruptions, you thought she understood the talking stick method, and you wont be seeing her again. Why did you even start out with the whole.

With your next therapist, dont do that. Just ask them not to interrupt you.

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Maybe be open for some feedback, too. On the other hand, dont feel you need to rush this.

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Bless you, I can only imagine what it must be like. It was an attempt to comfort you. I believe you that the counselor talked too much. Just keep in mind there may be things you need to hear even if they seem like an annoying intrusion on your thoughts.